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Economic abuse destroys lives – it must be taken seriously ...
Elizabeth and her children have been reduced to poverty by her ex. The law must treat such cases like domestic violence
Woman with pram
conomic abuse is a vicious and deliberate pattern of behaviour that destroys any hope of a secure future for victims and their children.’ Photograph posed by models Photograph: J Norden/IBL/Rex Features
Elizabeth doesn’t dare tell social services, but there have been nights when she and her three kids couldn’t eat. “No heating, no gas. We’ve lived like paupers,” she told me. “He doesn’t pay any maintenance even though legally he’s meant to, so sometimes I can’t pay my nursery bill. That means that even though I’ve left him, my job’s at risk – I can’t take a child into work.”
Her ex-partner has also sent emails to letting agents impugning her ability to afford the rent, meaning she’s had to stump up six months in advance to keep hold of a tenancy. Elizabeth (not her real name) didn’t have that money – she’s had to borrow from friends. Despite paying her rent on time, subsequent damning emails from her ex to letting agents have, she believes, led to her and the children being evicted twice.
He has also repeatedly maligned Elizabeth’s character to her employers. She’s just warned her new boss to expect a coruscating email from to land in his inbox. “He’s spoken to a wide range of people to destroy my reputation. Which I can’t action and I can’t repair,” she says despairingly. “He continues to thwart my ability to rent or own a property, to work, to qualify [she’s retraining], so he’s completely stifling me economically. Four years after leaving him, I’m as controlled by him as I always was.”
What Elizabeth is describing is now defined by domestic violence campaigners as “economic abuse”; a vicious and deliberate pattern of behaviour that destroys any hope of a secure future for victims and their children. Thanks to lobbying by the charity Surviving Economic Abuse, it has just been named for the first time in the government’s domestic violence bill. And not a moment too soon.
Economic abuse could soon be made a crime in its own right, and be included as part of a statutory definition of domestic abuse, which would make it far easier to prosecute under “coercive and controlling behaviour” legislation. This is still a very new offence, but research by Surviving Economic Abuse found that between December 2015 to March 2017, 35 convictions for coercive and controlling behaviour were reported in the press.
In 21 of those cases, victims were described as having been subjected to various forms of economic abuse. Perpetrators had undermined their ability to earn money – five made their partner leave their job and one threatened to get the victim sacked – or alternatively, to maintain their standard of living. This might include spending money a victim had set aside for bills, destroying their property, or using coercion or fraud to build up debts in a partner’s name. One woman ended up £50,000 in debt; another perpetrator emptied joint bank accounts. Thousands of pounds were “borrowed” from a third victim. Phones were smashed. Some women had their clothes burned or thrown away, costing them money to replace. Wider family was not immune: there were threats and damage to property belonging to one victim’s parents.
Elizabeth now thinks that because she is unable to financially provide for them, she might lose her children
In every case, it was men abusing women’s ability to live a financially secure and independent life. And it turns out you’re never too old or too young to be economically abused, with the victims ranging from 18 to 74. It happened in relationships as short as a couple of months and in some that had endured for many years. The layers of financial manipulation that typically characterise economic abuse make it difficult for police to investigate. And proving Elizabeth’s case has, it seems, been too hard for the state to follow through: though the police built a case and recommended that her former partner be charged, the Crown Prosecution Service refused. Too complex, and too little chance of a conviction, she was told.
Clearly, these are not going to be simple cases to bring to court. It’s not a fractured eye socket or a punctured lung. It’s not a shouting match neighbours can hear and give evidence on. How do police prove a victim has been deliberately prevented from going to work? How do you show that the gas money has been spent, month after month? How do you demonstrate to a jury that a victim has been coerced into taking on annihilating levels of debt?
But we wouldn’t accept a failure to prosecute for other serious crimes just because the prime suspect has done a great job of covering up. More forensic financial expertise is needed, fast, in police investigating teams, and there must be more commitment and determination from the CPS. It cannot be that the more complex, subtle and devious the abuse, the less likely an alleged offender is to come before the law.
It’s worth remembering too that there can be wider ramifications to a decision not to prosecute. “The judges [in the family court] have not accepted that this is a domestic abuse case,” Elizabeth told me. “They have accepted everything my ex said because he’s a lawyer, and because the police and CPS hadn’t charged. As a lawyer, my ex knows how to manipulate the courts, the legal system, the child maintenance service, so this is the reality – me and the kids sleeping in two beds at my friend’s and he’s in our old home, which I jointly owned, that’s worth well over a million.”
Elizabeth now thinks that because she is unable to financially provide for them, she might lose her children. “If I don’t get housing soon, I think they’ll be transferred to him,” she told me bleakly. Where’s the justice in that?
And if Elizabeth’s ex ever were to be convicted and jailed for economic abuse, where would that get her? She’s still beyond skint, she and her kids are still sofa surfing, and her professional standing has been trashed. Surviving Economic Abuse wants victims of this type of abuse to be financially compensated. But if the perpetrator has assets, why should the state cough up? Surely instead, it would be justice for a court to forensically assess a victim’s losses – and then squeeze their abuser’s bank accounts until they’re dry.
• Louise Tickle is a freelance journalist
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